Hello
What you mentioned is true. You cannot group two circuits by the same pipe when they are of different phases.
What you can do if you cannot mount another pipe is that the sockets and the lighting have the same phase since the lighting will not have a great impact on the phase balance
You should always take into account the correction factor when grouping circuits in the same pipe. For two circuits the factor is 0.8. In other words, at the maximum admissible intensity of the conductor you must multiply it by 0.8 in the case of grouping 2 circuits
Clarified this happened a capture of the paragraph of the regulations in force in Argentina where you mention what you ask

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